It’s no big secret that I’m a plus-size gal. But I would be lying if I said it’s never made me self-conscious; especially when I was active on online dating sites. I was always worried about being judged harshly by guys. If I went a few days without a message or if a guy didn’t respond to one I’d sent I always worried if that was the reason why. It took me a long time to realize that I was the one who was making a big deal out of everything. And since I’m sure I’m not alone in this feeling, here are a few ways to keep the pressure under wraps.