Things I will Not Do At My Wedding: Ask My Bridesmaids to Show Off Their Butts

exc-53bd7004e4b05c06d49db4ee So the other day, a blogger friend of mine posted an article about bridesmaids pulling up their dresses to show their butts for photos. Yes, you read that right. I said showing their butts in photos. And, yes, apparently it's a thing because I've seen a few articles about it. Everywhere.

All I have to ask is why? Why? Why? Why?

Ok. I guess in some weird way I kind of get what they are trying to do here. Weddings tend to be all about being prim and proper. And fancy schmancy. And maybe you don't want to do that. So maybe this is a way to throw a little rebellious something in there. I mean, I am a rebel so I can get wanting to so something a little fun and off the wall at your wedding.

But how about you just wear a colored dress or do some crazy dance or run off and elope. I don't know. Something other than having your ladies pull up their dress to show off their rears.

And I will give the gals kudos for being comfortable enough for that. If I was in a wedding and a bride asked me to do that I would be mortified.

But, seriously folks. Can we just talk about why you would actually want a picture like that? I mean, I'm not trying to judge or anything, but what are you going to do with it? Put it in an album with all of your other photos? Put it on your picture wall next to the one of you and the groom cutting the cake?

I seriously don't get it.

So, yep, file that under the things I will not be doing at my wedding. And I seriously hope this isn't a real thing. Or that it ever will be.